Gratitude through Letters
About three months before she died, Kris was asked to speak to our congregation at church about overcoming adversity. It was a gutsy, but inspired ask by our church leaders given her condition and prognosis. After a few moments of hesitation, not so much about speaking, but more about whether she could address the congregation without totally losing it emotionally, she decided to accept. Her talk turned into a powerful display of humility and gratitude as she thanked many people who had provided her with what she called a “happily ever after” life. It’s a written record of her emotions and love for us that we will always cherish.
As we approach Thanksgiving, we encourage you to consider the important people in your life and take time to write them a letter of gratitude and appreciation. It doesn’t have to be long and sappy. Sometimes short and simple is enough.
Recently I’ve been purging bins that have been in storage for a long time, many of which include fun treasures from the past. Tucked away in these boxes are lots of letters and cards that we’ve given to each other and that others have given to us. I’m guessing it’s been a looonngg time since any of us have reread them, if ever, and yet we still keep them. Why? For me it’s not so much about the content, but that they’re there. They represent the connection I have with meaningful people in my life.
If you need some ideas about writing to your friends and family, see our June 19, 2022 blog: “The Love Letters”
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